Can a Spiritual Director also be a friend?

This workshop explores the intersection of friendship and Christian Spiritual Direction. Drawing on contemporary and historical prayer styles from differing charisms within the world of Christian Spiritual Direction, we’ll delve into how authentic friendships - rooted in prayer and virtue - can both challenge and enrich the practice of Spiritual Direction. From Teresa of Avila’s call for friendships that foster communal love to John of the Cross’s reflections on how relationships draw us closer to God, this session offers profound insights into how friendship shapes our journey toward union with the divine.

Together we will explore how Spiritual Directors can balance friendship’s benefits with the risks of attachment, using examples from Christian spirituality and practical applications. Through reflection and discussion, you’ll discover how friendship in Spiritual Direction can foster trust, authenticity, and transformation while keeping God at the centre.

Join us to examine friendship not only as a human connection but as a spiritual tool - a path to deeper understanding of “who we are to God and who God is to us”.

David Clayton

David Clayton is a qualified and experienced Spiritual Director, Supervisor, and Behavioural Analyst dedicated to supporting individuals on their journey toward deeper self-awareness, purpose, and personal growth. Trained in Ignatian and Carmelite Spirituality, with a grounding in Mystical, Desert, and Monastic traditions, he brings a distinctive integration of spiritual and behavioural expertise. His approach is holistic, combining Christian spiritual practices with evidence-based behavioural insights to explore how life experiences shape behaviour and decision-making. David helps individuals unlock their potential and embrace lasting, meaningful transformation. Through compassionate guidance, he empowers clients to live authentically and in alignment with their core values, offering support both in person and online.

Date: Friday 7 November

When: 10:00- 15:00 GMT

Where: Online

Cost: £50 Non Members, £40 Members

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